Crisis is an event we all experience in certain phases of our lives. However,
in most cases, it is an indication of the need to change some certain aspect
of our lives; it is either for growth or for total destruction. it depends of the
approach and choices made by those involve.
Recently, a colleague of mine lost her Job and it was due to the closing down
of a branch which she was directly in charge. This threw her into crisis because
she was not prepared.
Furthermore, there was no one to help and her health has deteriorated
drastically up to the extent of using sedative to sleep which could only last her
for 30-45minutes. she decided to take the following steps because the emotion
was overwhelming and her life was in danger.
1.Solitude: It is advisable that you leave the vicinity and go to a new environment
that is quiet and spend like 2 weeks minimum. Then get books to study on how to
manage the crisis at hand. study as many books as you can because it will help in
managing your thoughts and keep it in one direction.
2. Forgiveness: The guilt was still inside her that she did not run the business very
well. As you know that naturally, until we don’t take things personal , the Judge and
victim part of us will always dominate. So, try as much as possible to move on although
it is not an easy one.
3. Plan on moving out of the crisis: Lastly, draw a plan on the next thing to do.
Do youwant to become a consultant? Where do you want to work? Who do I need to
contact?GC Which skill do I need to learn to become better.
Crisis can come in any form either in marriage, loss of a love one, ailment etc.
So we should not go into the path of self pity, guilt and self condemnation which by
99.9% complicate the crisis at hand.
To Your Success,
Tim Jibodu ACA, ACTI
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