Change is a part of life. Sometimes it’s positive, and other times less so.
But regardless of what form it comes in, you have a choice: you can either
ride the wave of change, or let it crash upon you as you struggle to remain
afloat. Sure, it’s easy to adopt a path of least resistance to step back and
watch as the events unfold and take their own course. But while that certainly
requires less effort, it means that you are not in control of your life.
The secret to handling change is to focus on progress. Now, you may be
thinking that this is easier said than done. When you are lost, or trapped
in an emotions, it’s hard to even make sense of what is happening, let alone
understand what steps to take to move yourself forward. However, if you can
follow these steps then you can take hold of your life.
Step 1: CREATE A VISION: Create a vision for what it is that you truly want.
If you find yourself unemployed, what does your ideal career look like? If you
recently relocated to a new city, what do you want your life to look like there?
If you and your partner are having trouble, what does your dream relationship
with him or her look like?
Step 2: MAKE THE RESOLUTION: Now it’s time to declare: “Okay, I am not
going to just sit here and hope everything will be okay. I am going to take
control of this situation.” Cut off any other possibility. If this is what you want,
then burn the boats and bridges of returning back.
Step 3: FIND YOUR REASONS: Now that you have your vision, and you have
dedicated yourself on a fundamental level to reaching this goal, you need to
find your reasons – your purpose for wanting to achieve this result.
Step 4: MAKE IT PART OF EVERY DAY: Think back to something you wanted
more than anything, something you were so hungry for that you felt a deep
emotional need for it, something that you were intensely clear about it, and
thought about every single day.
Step 5: RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Ultimately, if you want to create real change
in your life, you have to raise your standards. That is, to let go of our self-limiting
belief which has done more harm then good. Hence, refuse to settle for anything
less.
Step 6: ADOPT DAILY ROUTINES: You have to back up your standards by what
makes those standards real. Routines are little things that you do each day that
eventually build up so much momentum that it becomes a clear path to your vision.
To Your Success
Tim Jibodu
Platinum Gold Services
Change, no matter how devastating, does not have to define your life. You get to
make that decision. And if you adhere to these steps, then no matter how lost you
may feel, you will be able to start designing the life you want, and living the life you
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