Timothy Here Again,
Change is a part of life. Sometimes it’s positive and other times less so. But regardless of what form it comes, you have a choice. You can either ride on the wave of change or let it crash upon you as you struggle to remain afloat.
Sure, it’s easy to adopt a path of least resistance to shrug your shoulders, step back and watch as the event unfolds and takes its own course. But while that certainly requires less effort, it means that you are not in control of your life, especially with events that have unfolded in the year 2020 – COVID-19 Pandemic, #ENDSARS etc.
The secret to handling change is to focus on progress. Now, you may be thinking that this is easier said than done. When you are lost or trapped in an emotional fog, it’s hard to even make sense of what is happening. Let alone understand what steps to take to move forward. However, if you can follow these steps, then you can take hold of your life. These steps are not vague but methods I always adopt under any situation I find myself.
Step 1: CREATE A VISION: Create a vision for what it is that you truly want. If you find yourself unemployed, what does your ideal career look like? If you recently relocated to a new city, what do you want your life to look like there? If you and your partner are having trouble, what does your dream relationship with him/her looks like?
Step 2: MAKE THE RESOLUTION: Now it’s time to declare: “Okay, I am not going to just sit here and hope everything will be okay. I am going to take control of this situation.” Cut off any other possibility. If this is what you want, then burn the boats and bridges of returning back.
Step 3: FIND YOUR REASONS: Now that you have your vision, and you have dedicated yourself on a fundamental level to reaching this goal, you need to find your reasons – your purpose for wanting to achieve this result.
Step 4: MAKE IT PART OF YOUR EVERY DAY: Think back to something you wanted more than anything. Something you were so hungry for that you felt a deep emotional need for it. Something that you were intensely clear about, and thought about every single day.
Step 5: RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Ultimately, if you want to create real change in your life, you have to raise your standards. That is, to let go of your self-limiting belief which has done more harm than good. Hence, refuse to settle for anything less.
Step 6: ADOPT DAILY ROUTINES: You have to back up your standards by what makes those standards real. Routines are little things that you do each day that eventually build up so much momentum that it becomes a clear path to your vision.
Dedicated to Your Vision and Success,
Tim Jibodu, FCA
P.S. Change, no matter how devastating, does not have to define your life. You get to make that decision. And if you adhere to these steps, then no matter how lost you may feel, you will be able to start designing the life you want, and living the life you deserve.
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